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bye bye 2011, welcome 2012...

2012-01-11T10:32:00.000+08:00

time flies, so fast we are saying bye bye to 2011 and welcoming 2012..in 2011, there are alot of things happened, retrenchment, dad passed away, almost homeless......etc, all these have left me drained and tired/depressed. luckily, i pull myself up by the end of the year.

to all the bad bad things - off u all go and never come back...
to all the good good things - welcome and pls come find me more often....

hahahaha...goodbye 2011...
2012, a new year with new hopes...
wishing all a very happy new year and all the best for 2012!!!!

2011 christmas....

2012-01-11T10:26:00.000+08:00

there's no big celebration or a big feast for this year christmas, juz a warm, happy and enjoyable lunch, dinner and photo taking session with baobei & a good friend.

merry merry christmas!!!

约了doremon

2011-12-19T15:06:00.000+08:00

昨天看care bears，今天看电影alvin & the chipmunks，过后又看小叮当。可惜去得太迟，看不到它们表演，不过还好，来的及花$30拿receipt换photo pass和它们拍照。

它们好可爱哦！！！

和care bears有个约会

2011-12-19T15:00:00.000+08:00

知道amk hub会有care bears的表演，还可以和它们拍照，我们就去了。原本只需要在三十分钟前排队就行了，可是抱着新加坡人怕输的心态（因为怕票分完了），我们就在六十分钟前就去排队了（哈哈，怕输吧！）看了care bears的表演，我们就排着队，等上台和它们拍照。

拍完照，我们就去了外面的decorations那里拍更多的照，还看了care bears和santa claus的parade。本以为parade完了就没东西看了，就在这时候，有好多的bubbles喷了出来，好多好多，好美啊。。。

宝贝七岁了。。

2011-12-19T14:45:00.000+08:00

时间过得好快啊，宝贝七岁了。今年没有birthday party，只是带她去了sentosa玩了一天。我们玩得很开心，拍了很多照也吃了很多。宝贝还选了xmas主题的蛋糕做为她的生日蛋糕，哈哈哈。

宝贝，生日快乐，学业进步，身体健康，妈妈爱你哦。。。

减肥十四个星期了。。

2011-11-20T13:45:00.000+08:00

到昨天为止，我喝herbalife减肥已经十四个星期了，觉得减到很累，很没信心了。体重一直不会下了。不过身形是有小了啦。也决定了喝完这批，就换另一个牌子solar&lunar （朋友正在喝的）来保持，也希望可以瘦多一点点。加油啦！！！

着迷了。。。

2011-11-20T13:37:00.000+08:00

最近迷上了看新还珠格格，跑去买了整套dvd。看到伤心感人的部份，我也跟着哭得稀里哗啦的，看到好笑的部份，我就笑到肚子痛。哈哈哈

看了几个礼拜，昨天就把整套看完了。真得很好看，好想从头看多一遍。

欣宜妹妹的生日

2011-11-20T13:22:00.000+08:00

病比较好了，而且答应了朋友去参加她女儿欣宜的生日派对。欣宜当天好美好可爱，不过很可惜，因为我还在病所以不敢抱她拍照。

欣宜：生日快乐，快高长大，身体健康。希望你和妈妈会喜欢我送的礼物。

大病咯

2011-11-20T13:08:00.000+08:00

这次真的生大病了。又咳又伤风又发烧的，病了一个多礼拜都还没完全康复。不过还真爽，拿了整个礼拜的病假，没有去做工，就在家里看电视，休息。

减肥十个星期了。。。

2011-10-15T14:39:00.000+08:00

好快哦，减肥已经十个星期了。共减了6.7kg，不是很多，不过觉得身型有瘦挺多的，裤子都好松了。又要花钱买裤子了，所以决定去jb买（因为比较便宜嘛）。还要减掉4kg，希望可以快一点瘦下去，才不会花太多钱嘛。要加水减油了。。。

和朋友逛街吃饭

2011-10-15T14:30:00.000+08:00

在家呆了几个礼拜了，终于朋友有空出去了。去了orchard新开的购物中心，买了衣服给自己和女儿。再和朋友去吃好料，不过在减肥当中，所以不敢吃太多。顾着和朋友聊天，没有拍到照片。不过女儿和朋友的孩子玩得很开心。我也和朋友们聊得很开心。

减肥七个礼拜了。。

2011-09-24T17:11:00.000+08:00

到今天为止，我减肥已经七个礼拜了。总共减了5.8kg，体重一直上上下下，有时候真的好想放弃。每次很想吃很多东西，可是又怕会肥，就忍得好辛苦。忍无可忍时，就吃咯，吃后又很后悔，又很怕体重会加。决定了要开始就要继续下去，不然就会把之前花的钱都浪费掉了。下个礼拜又是我的减肥黄金期了，一定要好好利用，努力减才行。希望可以早点减肥成功。。

妈妈的59岁生日

2011-09-24T16:54:00.000+08:00

今年的九月六日是我妈妈的五十九岁生日。这天我拿了一天的假，女儿也刚好学校假期。早上起来，我们就换床单。过后冲凉，准备好了，我们就出去了。约了哥哥和大嫂傍晚在jurong east等因为哥哥要做工，所以我们就去了causeway point 吃午餐和逛逛。晚上要吃好料（海鲜)，午餐我不敢吃太多，就只吃了salad。在逛逛时买了蛋糕，但因为吃的太饱了，所以蛋糕拿回家改天吃。

妈妈生日快乐！！

动物园一日游。。

2011-09-24T16:30:00.002+08:00

学校假期到了，觉得好无聊，所以带了女儿去动物园。

到了那里，也是中午了，就先去找东西吃，找来找去，结果还是吃快餐。

之后就开始了“做运动“ （因为一直走来走去）和看动物了。看了好多动物，也拍了好多动物的照片（太多了，所以就不在这里分享了）。表演方面嘛，就看了三种，胃白老虎吃，狗狗猫猫和海狮的表演。在精品店还猛拍照，女儿要跟那些动物bear bear拍照。

玩得好累但很开心。在精品店买了两件衣服（有50%），一件我的，一件女儿的。

减肥三个星期了。。

2011-08-29T11:40:00.000+08:00

第三个星期了，这个星期成绩不是很好，才减了0.4Kg。一定要继续努力才行。喝了三个星期的奶系，造理应该适应那个味道了，可是我却感觉喝到很腻，不过我会继续努力，一定要瘦。。。

马来西亚的UK Farm....

2011-08-29T11:34:00.000+08:00

话说这一天 20/8/2011，好友要带我们去UK Farm，我也决定要在好友家住一晚。为了住这一晚，我早上7点就起来做完家务了。

进到jb的第一站就是吃，去了一间叫私家厨房（没记错的话啦）的餐厅（好友听说这间的东西和蛋糕很好吃），所以我们就去试。。

果然真的好好吃哦，尤其是它的甜品，真的是yum yum yum yummy.......

吃完后就出发到UK Farm了，去到那里下起雨来，不过幸好我们等了一下雨就停了。进去后就开始了我和女儿跟平时不一样的体验了。第一次喂羊喝奶，第一次看这么多羊在我面前跑过，第一次这么近距离看鸵鸟，第一次走泥路。不过还算玩得很开心。。

女儿还在那里的留言板留言了。。

最后我们去了一间在海边的买nasi lemak和海鲜的店吃。它的nasi lemak很好吃，辣椒超正的。。这一天吃了那么多，也胖了0.3Kg，下个星期要努力减了。。。

减肥两个星期了。。

2011-08-29T10:52:00.000+08:00

第二个星期了，这个星期才减了0.9kg，好慢哦。。不过身形是有小一点啦。。

两个星期前

两个星期后

有小到对吗？？哈哈哈

减肥一个星期了。。。

2011-08-14T13:59:00.000+08:00

不知不觉开始喝奶系减肥已经一个星期了，觉得效果还不错，供碱了3kg。这整个星期都吃得挺清淡的，也尽量吃蔬菜和水果。下午饿了就吃个energy bar （选了low calorie 的）。

水方面呢，teamix 本来应该喝2L （4 scope 的 teamix），可是因为不能适应一下子新称代谢提高太多，所以会觉得头晕，就决定减量，喝1L （1 scope teamix) 和 2L 开水。慢慢地加到现在喝1L (2 scope teamix) 和 3L 开水。觉得还是会有点晕，可是晕的时间不会太久。希望能快点适应到可以喝2L (4 scope teamix) 和 2-3L 开水。

下个星期就要在去程全身的体重，好期待。要再接再厉，加油的减多一点。。

new phone...

2011-08-07T20:55:00.000+08:00

finally my phone give way, going to spoil anytime....so after much tot, decided to upgrade & trade in my phone before its worthless/cant trade in...i gotten the new samsung galaxy s ll, downloading apps and setting up my new phone...so happy...^_^

Before dieting....

2011-08-07T20:51:00.000+08:00

before starting my dieting plan/product, weighing and taking the before pic is necessary...

the product i chose for my slimming plan tis time..

front view

side view

weight: 58.3kg height: 158cm

body measurement:-
arm - 12.5
chest - 32
stomach - 31.5
waist - 33.2
abdomen - 36
bottom - 37.6
thigh - 21.5
calf - 14

so fat right....lets see if tis product work for me....

last big meal before diet...

2011-08-07T20:44:00.000+08:00

went jb yesterday, at first is to juz go for the pc fair (wanted to buy hard disk), but end up eat alot too...my good friend knew tat i'm going to start my herbalife product (for slimming), so took me to have a big feast, eat my favourite crab...

my lunch...

my tea break...

my dinner....

thanks soi fun for the great dinner....

中元节。。

2011-08-02T08:12:00.000+08:00

好快哦，又到了中元节了。今年不一样的是要记拜我爸。初一时一大早起来准备好了就去我哥那里，到了那，把哥哥买好的记拜食物和金子准备好就开始拜了。妈妈因为要做工所以不能去拜。拜好后也把金子烧掉后就是把食物吃了。哥哥买了好多鸡肉，吃得我好饱，还dabao了回家。

多了个新成员。。

2011-08-02T07:56:00.000+08:00

我们家现在多了个新成员，那就是我大嫂。哥哥和大嫂正式注册结婚了。虽然他们还没摆酒，但是在法律上他们已经是夫妻。注册典礼过后，在一家潮州酒楼摆了两桌，请了哥哥和大嫂的朋友还有我们两家人吃了一顿丰盛的午餐。

恭喜哥哥和大嫂，祝你们百年好和，永结同心！！！

罪过，罪过。。。

2011-07-17T14:24:00.000+08:00

说要减肥，可是还是吃了好料，和朋友带女儿去了swensen吃，我吃了个套餐（有salmon & mushroom baked rice + mushroom soup + coke + ice cream）

晚上还去了ajisen吃raman，我吃了一碗海鲜拉面+绿茶

真的是罪过，肥死了！！

只好作多点运动了，今天也吃的清淡点，吃粥+山楂水。。

昨天吃了那么多，今天起一定要坚持吃少点。。

开始减肥了！！

2011-07-15T15:32:00.000+08:00

决定开始减肥了，就用吃少点，运动多点，零食走开的方法。。

不知道是刚开始还不习惯少吃，好像很快饿，又怕会肥，所以不敢再吃。不知道是因为这样，我的胃也开始痛了。就连晚上睡觉也会cramp，痛得都睡不着。

运动方面嘛，三天前我就开始做sit up了，昨天也开始skipping，可是还没看到效果，体重还是没下，没关系，我会继续努力，坚持到底。希望很快会有成绩。

加油加油！！！

la la la session

2011-07-10T14:15:00.000+08:00

it has been some time since i last went to KTV, finally went with a friend yesterday, we had fun singing away, its like a mini concert of ours, hahahaha...sing our hearts out was so good, relax, a good way to destress too.....hope to go again soon....

eat eat eat...

2011-07-10T14:10:00.000+08:00

went eating & eating again with friend again...nice nice crab...yum yum...

eat & eat, 肥死咯。。。

soap making

2011-06-26T13:49:00.000+08:00

went out with friends yesterday, had lunch at medz (food is quite good), located at orchard central.

after eating, we saw a shop selling soaps, there's this soap making workshop too, we find it interesting so we decided to do it. we had lots of fun choosing the color, smell, shapes for the soaps we are making.

the soaps that phoebe made, a total of 6, for me, i made a total of 5. it juz cost S$28 (after discount) including all the material & tools and we experience making our own soap and bringing them home to use. the fun & laughter we had is all worth the money paid.

they can organize for birthday parties whereby all can experience the soap making & oso bring the soap back, it will be a fun and memorable event ba. maybe i can plan to have phoebe's birthday party there tis year. ^_*

2nd time to universal studio

2011-06-21T12:34:00.000+08:00

its our 2nd time but my mum's 1st time to the universal studio.

i started praying for good weather a week ago so that we could have fun & take all the rides there..& my prayers was really answered. its a really good weather (its so hot), we managed to take most rides (those we missed out the 1st time)

although it was tiring & hot but we really enjoy & had a really fun day there.

a night out...

2011-06-21T12:18:00.000+08:00

so long never have a night out liao. finally have a chance to go out with friends at night without my daughter.

dinner & a drink after that was a good & relaxing night..........

第一次带宝贝去看戏

2011-05-29T13:54:00.000+08:00

kungfu panda 2 做了，就决定带宝贝去看。也把好友叫去。这是我们第一次一起看戏。

虽然是看cartoon，可是好好笑哦。宝贝哈哈大笑到那么大声。hehehehe

看完戏就去shopping了，买了好多衣服喔，有六件那么多，还买了个包包，和宝贝的放art folio的包。也花了不少钱再吃，lunch吃ichiban sushi，dinner又在new york new york吃西餐。皮包大出血了。不过还是很开心，也期待下一次的outing。。。。

mother's day celebration

2011-05-19T12:23:00.000+08:00

this year mother's day we celebrated a day earlier, on 7 May, as its oso polling day for the general election in singapore, mum is able to take leave on tat day. tis year we have special guests to spend the day with us, they are the parents of my soon to be "da sao". we went to vivo, had a sumptuous lunch at crystal jade and dinner at sakae sushi... da sao parents ate alittle only, makes us looks like we are hungry ghost...hahahahhaha..still its an enjoyable day for all of us....

enjoying life!!!

2011-05-19T12:12:00.000+08:00

have been really enjoying life these days, keep shopping, eating, & massage...
been to tis Javanese massage at sembawang, its quite good, only tried the shoulder massage (but they massage the whole back + hands), was good & relaxing, cost $30 only...will be going again soon....

shopping + eating day...

2011-04-23T15:13:00.000+08:00

its good friday and a shopping + eating day for me, my gal & beloved friends. 1st we went to yishun northpoint, bought jeans, a dress and ate at sakae sushi..

Phoebe & her train kids meal...

we 2 woman & a kid ate $100+ de food..didnt know we could eat sooooo much...as if we were hungry for days....

me & my beloved friends...

had too heavy lunch, so ice cream for phoebe's dinner...

& for me, blueberry cheesecake...

we had a great time shopping and eating...looking forward to the nez shopping + eating outing soon....

changing job again.....

2011-04-23T15:04:00.000+08:00

decided to change job again, this time i guess i wont change again liao. going back to custom that company to work as site clerk, freedom + stress free...i feel that i suddenly cant handle stress liao, so when they call me back, i agree to go back straight.....

new job....

2011-03-19T18:53:00.000+08:00

it has been a week into my new job, still cant really adjust as i still have a scare feeling but it's not as bad as before. trying to overcome the scare feeling of being alone, hopefully i can deal with it soon. have been telling myself i must make it tis time round, i must keep tis job as i need the money, i must adjust and overcome all difficulties.

as for the place to stay, i will call up hdb to ask about rental, hopefully have it and my burden wont be so big, but last choice is to extend the contract here, with a higher rental, but i got no choice as ti rent a room outside is equally expensive, i rather pay the high rent here to have the freedom and wont affect my daughter, she wont have to adjust again.

hope heaven give me a smooth path tis time, let me have a smooth road ahead......

yet another bad news...

2011-03-05T19:03:00.000+08:00

juz got news that the landlord wants to increase the rental amt, and tis amt is wat we cant afford, thus we got to move..problem is how do i get a place to stay?? rent a room - no freedom, no room for phoebe to move around, rent whole unit - i cant afford..my bro says go to stay at his place 1st, but his place is too small for all of us and too far for me, & too far for phoebe to go school...

y must all things happen in 1 go, y heaven is so unfair to me, take away my job, take away my love, now take away my place to stay, does it wan to take my life away too??

rest in peace, dad....

2011-03-05T18:42:00.000+08:00

after some many days in the ICU fighting with the disease, his condition havent got any better, doctor says needs to amputate his leg & hand but we disagree, and so we decided to let him go in one piece. after 3 days desicion made, he left us...

it has been a week he left, but still we have to settle the things he left behind (bank, cpf), and prayings to be done...dad, rest in peace, we will miss u.....

worries......

2011-02-13T13:37:00.000+08:00

1st is jobless, worry cant get a job, 2nd is my dad condition, seems getting worse, went to see him, see he so miserable really makes me wan to cry....

now that i found a job but still worry, worried that i cant cope, worried that i cant adjust to the environment coz i find it too quiet in the office, & tis makes me feel scare and lonely, then all the bad tots keep comes to mind...i dun know wat i should do, i juz know i need the job, keep telling myself i need time to adjust but when it comes to a working day, i feel i dun wan to go to work...

tis few days keep feeling depress, dun feel like doing anything, dun feel like talking, dun feel like going anywhere, even dun feel like eating, i keep feel scare but i dun know wat i exactly scare of...i feel like i'm going crazy anytime...god, pls blessed me with the energy and strength to overcome all the fears.....

兔年咯。。。

2011-02-07T14:26:00.000+08:00

这么快，新的一年又来了，今年是兔年，祝大家兔年快乐，恭喜发财。。。。

除夕去了哥哥的家吃团圆饭，初一没地方去，初二去了表哥家，初三朋友家，初四也在家，初五宝贝开学了。。哈哈，这就是我过的兔年。。。

大年初一

大年初二

大年初三

大年初四

宝贝初一到初四都穿新衣。。。。hehehehehehehehehehehhee

retrenched lo.....

2011-02-07T14:16:00.000+08:00

it's confirmed, company closing down and all are retrenched...job hunting starts now, but cny period, its quite hard to get a job, so far send alot of applications liao, hope there's news soon...

a sumptuous dinner

2011-01-24T14:15:00.000+08:00

dun know y suddenly bring me to have a sumptuous dinner (dian xiao er). although is not any expensive romantic restaurant but still we 2 person ate $70++ worth of food (only 3 dishes)..feels like a long time did not have a sumptuous dinner liao...

ginseng duck

jiangnan prawn

cod fish with soy sauce

yum yum yum....looking forward to the nez sumptuous meal....hehehe

touched!!!

2011-01-24T14:10:00.000+08:00

met up with friends last sat, chat, have lunch...to my surprise, they gave me a belated birthday present, so sweet of them and i'm touched that they still remember...

thanks soi fun, yeng, yen & patsy...friends forever!!!!^_*

time for spring cleaning again....

2011-01-20T16:52:00.000+08:00

its the time of the year to do some spring cleaning again...lazy to start so do bit by bit...i started clearing & cleaning the dressing table in my baobei's room (which is full of her "rubbish") tat day..today i clear & clean the fridge, i intend to wash baobei's bears tml and shall start to clear & clean my room nez week...finally will be baobei's cupboard, toys, then will be changing of bedsheets and i'm done with the spring cleaning, sounds not much to be done but still it will be a tiring chore...so lazy oso...hehhehehehe

bad news.....

2011-01-20T16:49:00.000+08:00

wat a start of a new year...company having problem with customer side which led to us a temporary lay off, maybe will end up a permanent retrenchment, depending on the outcome of thie meeting again...haiz...i hate tis feeling of staying home to wait for an outcome, nw is like move or not move oso a problem...when will tis end...hope there's news soon...

new dish - fry potato

2011-01-20T16:46:00.000+08:00

i tried to cook new dish tat day - fry potato, of coz it's with hotdog & crabmeat stick again...hehehehe

lucky my baobei say is nice...:P

new hair style for 2011

2011-01-20T16:43:00.000+08:00

i have went to do my corn perm again but tis time i change a new hair style, nw i look like my baobei...but still till now, 2 weeks liao, i still cant get used to it, still looking weird, so i decided to grow back my fringe...

phoebe's 1st PE lesson

2011-01-20T16:40:00.000+08:00

last tuesday is phoebe's 1st PE lesson in school. she can be in her PE attire for the whole day..

she enjoyed her lesson as she can run & jump...hahahahaha

shopping for cny...

2011-01-10T14:19:00.000+08:00

chinese new year is round the corner, time to go shopping again...almost done with my cny shopping....

clothes and shoes for myself.......

clothes for baobei, need to get more bottoms for her....

my 31 years old bday...

2011-01-10T14:11:00.000+08:00

so fast, 1 year older again...31 liao..OMG!!!! this year went out with my good friend, shopping + dinner, had a great time...thanks for all the bday wishes from friends and gifts from family & friends......

my bday cake....

cake cutting....

bday dinner - baby kan lan

bday dinner - mixed veg soup

bday dinner - chilli crab...

ang pow from my mum...thank you mummy...

little bear from baobei...thank you phoebe....

gift from anna...thank you anna...

gift from winnie...thank you winnie....

thank you my dear friends and baobei for spending the day with me, celebrating with me......^_*

baobei primary one lo.....

2011-01-10T13:57:00.000+08:00

my baobei primary one lo....time really flies...

day 1, morning at home....

in hall, going to classroom...can u spot phoebe??

during reccess

after school lo, waiting for school bus...

in school bus, go after school care lo....

she enjoyed school so far....hehehehe

1st day of 2011

2011-01-01T13:34:00.000+08:00

today is the first day of year 2011, a new year should have a new start..hope tis year will be a good year for me and for everyone..hope i can be financially stable, dun have to worry for money...huat ahhh!!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR............................................................

a brand new year is coming.....

2010-12-28T12:40:00.000+08:00

2011 is approaching, feels so fast that a year juz passed like tat..with 2010 ending & 2011 coming, my new year resolution is to have more more more money money money...hehehehehhe

a VeRy hAppY NeW yEAr tO AlL!!!!!

missed 的 xmas party...

2010-12-28T12:37:00.000+08:00

公司有xmas party，可是我 missed 掉了，应为我要赶回去带我的宝贝。。

xmas cake

我的同事们。。。。。。。。。。。。

xmas party in office...

2010-12-25T14:07:00.000+08:00

we actually have a small party (gift exchange) in office after which we will go be able to go home, but still i went off earlier as i need to rush back to fetch phoebe, i missed the party, but my colleague will help me to exchange my gift..(no pic to see as the gift should be on my office table now)..i oso received a small gift from my HR, it's so sweet of her to be giving everyone a small gift...

And of coz i bought log cake to celebrate at home..its a mini kit kat log cake from polar cake shop, its nice....

tis year no xmas big feast, juz another normal day for us....but still its a merry xmas....

xmas is coming.......

2010-12-25T14:01:00.000+08:00

xmas is coming and we are busy preparing presents for our gifts exchange party. we bought something from daiso (gifts with value not more than $2) for phoebe's gift exchange in school and i bought a cup from the gift exchange in my office. and oso i prepare a few gifts for my colleagues (but not everyone)...but hor, i forgot to take pics for all the presents....:P

a daTe WitH pOoH BeAr AnD frIeNds....

2010-12-25T13:58:00.000+08:00

came to know that serangoon that new shopping center "nex" is having a pooh bear photo taking session, so i decided to bring phoebe to watch & take pics. reach there, found out that we need to spend $30 in a single receipt then we will be able to take pics with pooh bear and friends, so after eating lunch at carls junior, we went on to buy things & get the receipt. then i became a kiasu singaporean, i went queuing 20 mins before the tickets issuing timing, & finally i got the ticket, we were happy and excited to meet our favourite pooh bear.......

开煮了。。。

2010-12-25T13:52:00.000+08:00

最近妈妈要做工，所以没煮，我就学下厨，开始常煮起来了。。

青菜

蛋

卤肉面

面

汤圆

ABC汤

女儿还说好吃。。hehehehe

女儿毕业啦！！！

2010-12-12T16:07:00.000+08:00

12月10日是宝贝女儿的毕业典礼，这天我特别早点回家和女儿吃了晚餐，在带她回去学校。到了学校，女儿就去准备，而我就和其他家长聊天。。

女儿毕业咯！！！！！ ^_*

表妹的婚礼。。。。。。

2010-12-12T15:56:00.000+08:00

那天去参加了表妹sylvia的婚礼，她的婚纱都好美哦。我也好累，应为早上一大早就去她的家等她出嫁，然后又赶回家洗澡准备出席她的晚宴。去到12+am 才回到家，隔天还要6am起来准备去做工。

在等表妹回来时，我act cute了起来。。

她的晚宴出场很special 是由新郎唱着歌走向新娘，然后在一起走向台上。

当晚坐的桌有我的三舅母，表弟表妹，表侄儿侄女，但然还有我，我妈和我女儿啦。。

食物嘛就还好，没什么味道，气氛就很好，很温馨，浪漫。。恭喜啦表妹！！！

气死我了！！

2010-12-06T12:57:00.000+08:00

went to phoebe's primary school to buy her uniform on saturday, but they actually never go there to sell on saturday (i call up tat day to check, they say same dates as the bookshop). then i call again, then they say they not going there, change to 13-16 dec then will be there but it's all weekdays, i got to work, how am i going to be there to buy. end up we took bus to beauty world center to buy, and it was raining so heavily, aiyo, make us run here & there..lucky still manage to buy her uniform liao.......

宝贝actual 生日天。。。。。

2010-11-28T14:08:00.000+08:00

昨天是宝贝actual的生日天，也是她childcare的见家长日。一早起床，做好家务，prepare好了，我们就下去她的childcare。老师说宝贝有很大的进步，大家都很喜欢她。好为宝贝感到骄傲。。过后我们就去jurong point。。

我们吃burger king，好饱喔。。

在那里拍了些照。。

过后回家，我煮饭和汤，跟宝贝就这样过了她的生日。。。。

Universal Studio

2010-11-28T13:54:00.000+08:00

带了宝贝去universal studio，玩得好开心啊！！

请别人帮忙拍的，要求不能太高。。

好可爱的“鸟”，也好可爱的我们。。哈哈哈

我们坐了很多的rides，那些比较刺激的，宝贝也敢坐。。怕怕。。。

我们还在那里买了好多东西。。哈哈哈哈。。。。。。

好累的一天，可是好好玩，好开心！！！！！

宝贝的生日party...

2010-11-28T13:38:00.000+08:00

今年我选择在宝贝的childcare庆祝她的生日，因为今年是她在这个childcare的最后一年，就让她和她的朋友们一起过。

蛋糕很可爱吧。。

宝贝和她的朋友们。。

很简单的celebration, 可是很开心，很温馨。。

送行日。。

2010-11-23T15:12:00.000+08:00

昨天去看了specialist, 在去的途中，感觉好像是要取送行，好怕。看了医生，他也没多说什么，就说是mirgraine，要我每天都吃药，吃足两个月，两个月后再回去检查。haiz...多希望这个药是仙丹，可以吃了头就不会再痛，可是药终究是药，不是仙丹，头还是再痛。。。。。。。。。

Baobei's Primary One Orientation

2010-11-13T16:32:00.000+08:00

Today we went to phoebe's primary school for the P1 orientation. Upon arrival, we are to sit separately (children are to sit by their class & parents to sit in the front). At 1st i was worried that she will be scared to sit by herself but luckily she did not.

After the principal speech, the children proceed to their classrooms for some "get to know you" & school tour session while we parents continue to sit in the hall for further speech by the principal. After which we too proceed to the classrooms to fill in some forms (pupil data form, dental form & giro form).

After filling in the forms, the orientation oso comes to an end. I went to phoebe's classroom to fetch her. To my surprise, she actually already make some friends in her class & she's enjoying herself. Seeing this, i dun have to worry that she will be scare & cry on her first few days in school next year.

PHOEBE, 你好棒！！

开始准备宝贝生日的东西咯！

2010-11-13T16:23:00.000+08:00

宝贝的生日快要到了，我也已经开始在准备她生日party的东西了。

party 用的。

给小朋友的goodie bag 里的东西。

goodie bag

total 有24个goodie bags （她的班有22个小朋友）

蛋糕也订了，也买了一些零食在party的时候吃。只剩下水还没买（因为拿不来），明天再去买。hehehe.......:P

新的玩具

2010-11-13T15:56:00.000+08:00

昨天去买了新的电话（sony ericsson X8)，上网查时，网上就只有白或蓝白，去到singtel，既然有我想要的白和粉红色。那但然我是买了我要的颜色啦。

给朋友的礼物

2010-11-13T15:46:00.000+08:00

有个朋友的生日快到了，所以为她prepare了一份礼物。不是很贵重，只是一点心意。

盒子上的星星是宝贝女儿要给aunty anna （我朋友）的。^_^

假期前夕

2010-11-04T13:45:00.000+08:00

今天是deepavali假期的前夕，真的好懒惰做工。昨晚又睡得不好（全身酸痛），所以今天真的好累。东西只做一半，就不想做了，只是一只想要睡觉，想时间快点到5.45pm，可以放工回家。

有三天的假期，明天就在家里好好的休息，星期六和日都有节目了。希望酸痛也快点滚蛋，时间快点过。好累啊。。

也祝大家 happy deepavali....

oN LeaVe 的一天。。

2010-10-18T13:29:00.000+08:00

今天拿了一天的年假，早上去了hdb (choa chu kang branch), 做了statuory declaration，因为我申请了hdb 的 cpf housing grant， hdb 要我从2009年二月份到现在的payslips，可是2009年二月我没有做工，所以要做statuory declaration。过后，就去了lot 1，order 了我的contact lens，去了ntuc买了好多东西。就回来了，要等pub的人来check gas pipe。约好了在1130-130pm 之间来，结果，只用了不到五分钟就check好了。我也就没事做了，就再看电视，休息，好悠闲哦。。hehehehe

company's outing - bbq

2010-10-11T12:24:00.000+08:00

went to bbq which company organise but not for the whole company. actually i dun really like bbq coz very hot, & i dun really like to eat bbq food, but i went to show face & most importantly, bring my baobei go swim. she had a great time, swim until doesn't wan to get out of the pool..then poor me, must sit under the hot sun to wait for her...haiz...but least we r happy...

always in memorandum - sebastian

2010-10-06T12:56:00.000+08:00

yesterday received the news of a schoolmate passed away. he's juz 30 years old yet he died of cancer. although we never keep in contact, but when i hear the news, i felt so sad too. went to his wake last night too, seeing him lying there, the not much weight/fresh body, really makes me feel upset. cancer can actually coz someone who was once quite plump to become like tat.

heard from his buddy (oso is my good friend) that he died peacefully at home without much pain, tats the only relieve. he actually still joke & make fun of his friends & family till his last breath. he had his wish fulfilled and the way he wanted to be done with..

he will always be remembered in all friends heart. rest in peace sebas....

八月十五- 中秋节

2010-09-25T19:33:00.001+08:00

好快哦，又到了中秋了，今年也和去年一样，去了jb买月饼，不过今年卖了好多哦，肯定会发胖了。也买了个灯笼给宝贝，可是应为自己身体不好，所以没带宝贝下楼提灯笼。结果宝贝就在家里提了。

Worried.....

2010-09-18T21:43:00.000+08:00

headache for 2 weeks liao, 2 times cramp and 3 injections within a week really makes me feel worried and scared..still need to wait for the appointment to see the brain specialist. this leaves me a even torture coz till now all i know is i got migraine but i'm not told y do i have such a bad pain with cramps, all will have to leave till the appointment then i will know. i really start to feel scare, worry that wat if i got illness, wat if it's a tumor, wat if it's cancer. i need someone to share my worries, share my fear, someone to let me lean on his shoulder, cry in his hug, but tat someone seems to be more & more far from me..

this 2 weeks, i'm really sad & down..with the worries and fear and the loneliness is really making me going crazy. my mum is oso so scare and worried for me, whenever she hear her phone rings, she will get frightened, afraid that i'm sent to the hospital again..haiz, when can this headache leave me?????

my mum's birthday celebration

2010-09-06T22:01:00.000+08:00

today is my mum's bday, we have a simple yet not cheap celebration yesterday at orchard's cystal jade restaruant. i bought a watch for my mum while my bro & his gf bought her a bag from charles & keith...we had a very nice lunch (main course, tim sum and deserts), but i actually forgot to take pics for our food..*faint*....but i do have some pics of our happy moments to share...here you go---

shopping day in jb....

2010-09-06T21:31:00.000+08:00

we went to malaysia bukit indah jusco for some shopping last sat. & oso met up some friends...spend & buy so much, mooncakes (10 pcs), clothes, shoes, bday present for my mum, etc....pocket burn a big hold again...we had pizza for lunch (thks to yeng for the nice lunch) and stone grill tom yang seafood dong fun for dinner (thks to yen for the sumptuous dinner), and last but not least thks to soi fun for bringing us around again...we had a great shopping and eating time.... :)

home alone saturday

2010-08-28T16:00:00.000+08:00

today i'm alone at home (all has went out to work/play)..so free that after i finish doing housework, i actually cooked a pot of green bean soup..hehe...i'm enjoying my green bean soup now....yum yum *slurp*

i'm confirmed....

2010-08-28T15:56:00.000+08:00

times flies..so fast i went back to Fotronics been 3 mths already..& i'm confirmed with $100 increment. not sure if its becoz i'm confirmed and GM wans me to learn my colleague's work, tis colleague of mine seems like beginning to create trouble for me..starting to feel that she's a two headed snake, and oso quite disheartened. guess i really got to give it a real thought if i wan to continue working there for long..

phoebe's place in teck whye pri is confirmed!!!

2010-08-28T15:52:00.000+08:00

i received the letter saying phoebe has successfully got a place in teck whye pri (the one we register), it's time to get prepare & ready for her pri 1 nez year...

DesArU 之旅。。

2010-08-28T15:49:00.000+08:00

终于不lazy得坐在电脑前update我的blog。。

八月七-九日，我带了女儿去jb & desaru玩。和好友淑芬，还有他的家人一起去。也是淑芬的生日[生日快乐]。我们也prepare了食物带去吃。女儿玩到不想回了。我们都过了开心的一天。。谢谢淑芬邀请。。

报名咯！！

2010-08-02T11:56:00.000+08:00

今天去帮女儿报名明年上小一了。报的不是什么名校，可是还是要等通知，需要到下个星期四才会知道进得了这间小学吗，如果不能，就要去报别的小学了。

希望可以进。。

2 Aug = 替女儿报名小一的日子。。

2010-07-27T12:09:00.000+08:00

时间过得真快，替女儿报名小一的日子就要到了。不知道能不能够报到那间我想替她抱的。也不是什么名校，只是比较靠近家，所以想要保那间。希望可以报到。

Burnt a HOLE in my pocket...

2010-07-11T14:54:00.000+08:00

these 2 weeks keep shopping, bought alot, clothes for myself & phoebe, shoes, toys............oopsss, burnt a big big hole in my pocket....no more shopping for me this month......:P

Busy Busy Busy...

2010-07-11T14:52:00.000+08:00

have been so busy lately, too tired to log in & update my blog...things happened & i'm so busy to deal with everything....headaches have been with me everyday for the past 1 week...haizzzzz....tired tired tired...i need a break.....

好贵的晚餐！！

2010-06-20T13:35:00.000+08:00

昨天下午女儿和她爸爸出去，也会去那里过夜（因为父亲节，让女儿陪他多一些）。而我就和他去了vivo city 的 modesto 吃晚餐。这顿晚餐还真的好贵哦，我们两个人就吃掉了$80+。不过，我吃的那pasta很特别，pasta 是黑色的（食用sotong 的黑汁做的），有虾和 scallop。他的就没什么特别，就有baby lobster 的肉。还有不知道什么做的面包，要点olive oil 吃的（这道是 free 的）。还真怀念那到黑黑的pasta。

悠闲的星期六。。。。

2010-06-20T13:17:00.000+08:00

昨天和女儿去 lot 1 吃 mos burger。女儿吃得好开心。我也过了一个悠闲的星期六。

失望+害怕+不知该如何

2010-06-18T15:54:00.000+08:00

开始新工作的第二个星期，就发生了我一生来的第一次，而也是让我害怕，恐惧的经验。从来没想到会发生在我身上的事发生了，我被性骚扰了。不知道当时该如何，也不知道应不应该告诉老板，担心，害怕了一个多星期才决定把事情告诉老板。

原本老板是要马上开除那个性骚扰我的人，可是要我当面对质。我却不想把事情闹得这么大，到最后，公司就给了他警告信。到今天，好像很多人都知道是我被性骚扰，都像是用异样的眼光看我。还要面对一些同事的冷嘲热讽。不知道自己可以趁受得了吗。也不知道是不是应该继续这份工。因为事情的发生，让我晚上也睡得不好，每天都觉得好累。该这么办？？？

新加坡的GSS (GreAt SinGaPoRe SaLeS)

2010-06-06T20:40:00.016+08:00

GSS 开始了，到处都在大减价，真的然我禁不起诱惑。

买了个电饭锅，

我和女儿的拖鞋，

我的衣服和裤。

口袋破了个大洞了！！！！

我的新玩具

2010-06-06T20:35:00.000+08:00

一个星期前，去买了我的新玩具-电话（Sony Ericsson Vivaz). 回到家，研究了一个晚上，才弄好。不过好开心，想买了几个月的电话，终于买到了。

新的工作

2010-05-25T15:40:00.000+08:00

不知不觉，回到前公司上班已有六天了。因为是做新的职位，所以要学的东西很多，要做得也很多。工作时间也比之前长，每天放工回到家都要七点了。好累哦！！

有时候想为了多两百块钱，到底值得吗？工作压力大了很多，在家自己的时间更少了，每天也好累。因为我迟带女儿（迟放工），女儿在家玩的时间也变少了。一直跟自己讲一定要撑下去，吸取这方面的经验，至少一年才可以找其他的工。一定要加油！！！也期待这星期五的假期。。。

2010 年的母亲节

2010-05-10T19:35:00.000+08:00

今年的母亲节过得很简单但很温心。宝贝妍彤画了卡片和做了花朵给我。

还很贴心的在piggy bank里拿了钱，一直叫我带她去买礼物给我。最后她买了ah pooh给我。

而我就买了电话和宝贝选的花给我妈。

好开心，好温心。。

gOod NeWs

2010-04-29T13:07:00.000+08:00

with the news of a new job with a higher pay, here comes another good news & tat is i'm going to own a flat very soon. on monday, juz got the result for the balloting of the new BTO flats at woodlands which i applied for, i got a queue no. to select a flat *grin* in jun/jul. things start to seem going on smoothly & better. lets hope i will be able to successfully book a flat and wait for it to be build & i move in..hehe & oso hope will have increments, bonus in my new job & lastly hope on the romantic side will have some progress oso (i feel i really need a strong shoulder to lean on), i do hope to have a family & be pregnant again (oopsss, hope lah but with the right man)...hehhehehe :P:P

deciSioN MadE

2010-04-23T11:17:00.000+08:00

yesterday my ex ex company (the one i kana retrenched in 2009) called me, they offer me a job with S$1800 as starting salary with a 3-5% increment after probation. at 1st worried tat i might not be able to make it to take the company's transport coz got to send my daughter to school 1st. lucky after discussion with my mum, she agreed to help me fetch her to & fro school, so i can accept the offer (since can get more than the pay now). i too was happy to have tis offer.

during the employment with them tat time, was a happy & enjoyable one, if its not for the bad times, they wont have the retrenchment exercise. nw tat they r stable, they offer back the position to us (those who kana retrenched). looking forward in working with them again nez mth.

with the support from my family and friends, & the higher salary drawn, i should be able to lead a better life than now and save more $$$$$...:D :D

kOreA stRawBerRy

2010-04-15T18:55:00.000+08:00

yesterday he came back from korea liao. (he wan there to inspect machines). & to my surprise, he bought my favourite-strawberries..yummy..he says it cost around S$10 per box & he bought 2 boxes......i tried it immediately, wow...it's so big & so sweet...drool drool

最后一站 - OutdOoR PlaYgrOunD

2010-04-11T22:05:00.000+08:00

我们的游乐天 - 最后一站：

还在outdoor playground看到了乐队的表演：

buRgeR KinG

2010-04-11T21:59:00.000+08:00

玩了那么久，我们也饿了，不知道 Vivo 没有 Macdonald，还一直找，最后就在 burger king 吃 fries了。

在做window art

2010-04-11T21:51:00.000+08:00

我们的游乐天 - 第三站：

我们的作品：

在 toy 'r' us & Vivo 的顶楼

2010-04-11T21:45:00.000+08:00

我们的游乐天的开始 - 第一站 toy 'r' us：

第二站Vivo的顶楼：

好累的一天

2010-04-11T21:36:00.000+08:00

昨天，我和女儿一早就去了Vivo City。原本是要下午才去的（因为要和前夫去银行解决卡的问题），可是我的那个他就在附近工作，就叫我带女儿早点去和他一起吃午餐。吃了午餐，他就回去工作了，而我和女儿就在Vivo City开始了我们的游乐天。我们去了 toy 'r' us 看看，玩玩，又去了outdoor playground 玩。还去做了window art。一支玩到他放工了，女儿都还舍不得回。到最后，我们七点多才回到家，吃晚餐。跟女儿玩了一天，真的好累哦！！